Detached Observer

The lotus flower grows in muddy water and rises
above the surface to bloom with remarkable beauty. At night
the flower closes and sinks underwater. At dawn it rises and
opens again. The lotus symbolizes the purity of heart and mind.
“I am sharing my beauty and love with you. I want
nothing from you. It is OK if you don’t want to look at me
because my beauty comes with mud. I am detached from
illusion and all vices. I love me the way I am and love you the
way you are. I have no expectations. I have no desires. I am the
Real me.”
The lotus is a detached observer. The lotus is sharing
its beauty with the whole World but has no attachment to
anybody. During my discussions on this topic, people did not
like the word “detach.” Being the detached observer does not
mean that you are not allowed to have attachments. Handle
your karmic relationships as detached as the LOTUS, and share
your pure love and knowledge and don’t create sorrow for
anyone. When one is detached, one is not affected by Worldly
conditions like suffering and pain, happiness or sadness. These
are all Worldly states of mind. I am hurt and my mind can give
you hundreds of reasons of getting hurt but who is hurt, the
Real you or Ego. Ego is hurt because the Real you is full of
The Detached observer in a relationship gives pure
love to your partner and does not become possessive. (This is
the detached state).
The Universal LAW: Up and Down, Good and Bad,
Happy and Sad, Day and Light, winter and summer,
Attachment and Detachment. Think about your life: Be
practical and focus on things with which you are really attached,
a car, your cell phone, your pet (dog or cat or…), your friends,
your family, your girl friend or boy friend, your wife or
husband, your kids. Take a moment and detach yourself from
those attachments.
How does it feel when you detached yourself from those attachments?
Answer 1:
If the feeling is Wonderful then:
case 1 {you cheated yourself which means you did not go into a
deep dive to feel the detachment.}
case 2 {you did not feel the need to experience this because you
are underestimating the Universal law.}
case 3 {you have very strong intellect.}
Answer 2:
If the feeling is horrified or full of Sorrow: it means there is
some work to do. The work is not to get detached from that
attachment. It is time to be practical and understand that life is
not only about those attachments which you have. Life is
beyond that. You are here to add value in this world. You can
enjoy your relationship with more love and affection as a
detached obsjavascript:void(0)erver because there won’t be any insecurity or fear
of loss

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