Category Archives: ego

Addiction in relationship



 



love-hate


 


tricks of MIND and suffering for heart

why does the heart play such cruel tricks… or is it the mind? To fall in love with people who don’t feel it back. And to have people you don’t want to be with be in love with you….. how to find the equal balance … to find the person who sees who you are, and you them, at the Right Time….. it’s a big question I know

Personal Transformation of HUMAN MIND is a must. You are that human, I am that Human….

We suffer on the name of LOVE, a rule book created by others, and we learned tricks of Mind to play around with the feelings….

Heart says, I am in love but Mind is stopping disclosing the feelings. It all goes back to EGO and Freedom from that rule book.

Equal balance comes from the realization on the drama of life and detachment. In my word, detachment is not about letting go of relationships and become a monk. It’s about living life with freedom.

Let’s try to find the answer of few questions:

a) what stops us to love unconditionally?

b) what stops us to take the first step to disclose feelings to him or her?

c) what stops us to not to follow a rule book and live from the heart? Following heart does not mean that you go and hurt someone. Following your heart in favor of humanity, kindness, love, peace and so on

You don’t want to look desperate to him or  her so you decide to keep the distance as defined in a rule book.

You suffer may be a little, another person waiting on you, and you are waiting on  him or her and then one day it all over. You regret for whole life. Your Pride is bigger than your happiness that’s why you’re suffering.

Approach him or her with freedom, disclose your feelings with love, and if you don’t get what you want then try to realize that it’s all accurate. Sometimes there is insecurity or fear of not finding the person with the same look or qualities, and we start suffering because of unconscious thoughts.

Don’t fall in life because he or she did not allow you to enter in his or her life. Don’t let another human waste your life. Pay attention to emotions as its energetic motion and results in reactions.

I use following to live.

“any action taken with love will never let you down. Never ever take any action based on fear” ~Neeraj

” I won’t use others to suffer or get hurt. I take no sorrow and give no sorrow” ~Neeraj

“Silence is a language of GOD, rest is a poor translation” – RUMI

You can find balance if you understand the essence of above 3 quotes.